Leadership is one of those things that we all think we understand, but life and experience teach us there's so much more to learn. I've written on the topic before, and my thoughts continue to crystallize the more experience I get as both a leader and
In product, we risk getting bogged down in all the what-ifs, questions about possibilities, uncertainty. When you're designing a product, you only have the limited information in front of you, combined with all that world of unknowns. And there's only so much you can glean
Amidst the chaos of our lives we have glimpses of a stillness, a calmness, a breathing living possibility outside all the goals we're trying to accomplish. Recently I got up early and went on a long, multi-hour, hike with a friend. We watched the sunrise, enjoyed fun
I've been making software for a long time. That's meant seeing trends come and go, things shift, new technology emerge, and now the advent of AI. But, I also feel like I've got so much to learn about building a great user experience, defining
There are two types of conflict. In the first form, you have messy people attempting to work through a problem. They aren't perfect; they bring their own baggage, pride, mistakes, assumptions, faults, problems, hopes, dreams, and yes, sometimes deceit and hurt. But, by and large, through their faults
As a kid, I was often called gullible. I didn't mind too much. I took people at their word, generally believed what they said, and got into awkward conversations when I realized the other person was being sarcastic or sardonic. Sincerity, intentionality, deliberateness—all these are a bit
Steelmanning and strawmanning are two terms that I've been looking at a lot lately. A quick summary. Strawmanning Strawmanning means that you are oversimplifying someone else's argument into a weaker version to make it easier to knock down. So, if I disagree with you, I'
Om Malik passed away earlier this year. This week would have been his 60th birthday. Yesterday I flew back from California, where I attended OmFest 2026. Admittedly, I didn't know what to expect when Matt Mullenweg announced it and then Gruber cross-referenced it. I'd known
It's easy for me to lose sight of why I create art, why I share design, why I use the curiosity and creativity as a human to put things out into the world. There's benefit in those things by themselves. They're therapeutic, they challenge
Seven years ago I set a daily goal of 1,000 words. I was reading a Stephen King book (On Writing) and he suggested 2,000 words seven days a week as a writing habit, something he's done for many years. He offered an out, half of his
I forget a lot. In fact, I’ve written about this on numerous occasions. Watching my son learn to play the guitar today, I was struck by the joy of a great memory, a mind that can attune to something, learn it in a short period, and hold the ideas
As a small child, I thought all my friends had the cool parents. I saw them in the highlights, when things went well, in the happy moments. My own parents lived with me through it all, good and bad, and it was easy to pick apart the negative. I was